Chances are, if you like some guy, you will do your best to please him too! Of course, all people are different, but there are a few general ways that can work!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Part One: Use Your Charm
Step 1. Maintain eye contact
It sounds too simple, but in reality it will really interest the guy.
- Always make sure you maintain eye contact during a conversation. Try to calm yourself down so that your eyes don't run back and forth, especially towards the other guys.
- You can use this technique with eye contact even when you are on opposite ends of the room. Just look at him and then lower your gaze for a moment. Slowly raise your eyes and meet with gazes. Try to smile shyly and coquettishly.
Step 2. Dress up
This is not the main component of success, but nevertheless, appearance always makes a strong impression. If you don't know the guy yet, try to wear nice clothes and stylish accessories, and carefully apply your makeup.
- Of course, this does not mean that you should only wear revealing and tight clothes! Open clothes will undoubtedly attract a guy, but only for a while.
- A dress that reveals the legs, or a blouse that flaunts the figure in all the right places, works wonders! But you have to look attractive, not sexy or depraved.
- The idea is to make your body and face look perfect! Dressing and grooming stylishly will make you look attractive even when you don't need to be liked at all.
Step 3. Put on your casual clothes
After you meet the guy you like, put on some casual clothes. This is a sign that your goal was to please him.
- Always wear only clean clothes, sometimes you can wear a regular T-shirt with jeans, but if there is a huge mustard stain on it, you are unlikely to attract anyone.
- After you start chatting, you should still occasionally wear bright and attractive clothes to rekindle sympathy in him every time.
Step 4. Try to remind yourself non-verbally
Dab some perfume behind your ears or use a scented lotion after you shower. When a guy smells a pleasant scent, he will want to be even closer to you.
Moderation is very important. The scent should be strong enough for the guy to smell it, but don't overdo it! If the smell is too strong, it can become unpleasant
Step 5. Dance
Most guys go crazy for girls who are comfortable enough in their bodies to move seductively.
- You can show your skills in a club or a party. It will be much more effective if you start dancing right in the kitchen, if some cool music starts playing on the radio.
- Invite him to dance! An invitation to dance from a beautiful and cheerful girl always impresses any guy!
Step 6. Playfully fiddle with your hair
When you are sure that he is looking, twist the strand around your finger or accidentally turn it around to give the hair a perk. Try to do this as naturally as possible.
If you have short hair, you can simply tousle it slightly with your hands, but in a way that looks sensual
Method 2 of 3: Part Two: Keeping His Own Interest
Step 1. Balance independence and availability
You must show him that you can be independent, but at the same time, he must understand what you like.
- If the guy is busy all the time on the weekend, do not be offended and do not beg him for a little time for you. Just make your plans.
- Don't move away from him. Even if you can't spend a lot of time together right now, you can sometimes prepare for class together or chat about mutual friends.
Step 2. Demonstrate self-confidence
Let him see the other side of you! Even if you don't have anything interesting right now, chances are there are sure to be stories and actions in your life that will overwhelm him.
- Maybe you are too shy to talk about your career, your relationship. But on the other hand, you can be confident about your relationships with family and friends, about your mind, your ideas, and so on.
- When in doubt about whether to share an aspect of your life, find strengths that you are proud of.
Step 3. Respect yourself
Respect your body, your opinion, your life. Self-pity is a signal that you do not deserve serious attention, first you need to understand yourself.
Step 4. Show him different sides of your character
After he talked to you, it's time to show him the other side of you, character traits that he did not notice before. This will make you mysterious, because now you are not quite what you seemed at first glance.
- If you're usually serious and stern, show that you can laugh at your favorite movie. And vice versa.
- If you are usually lighthearted and cheerful, share your worries and fears with him one day.
Step 5. Learn to laugh at yourself
All people make mistakes at some point, most likely, someday you will definitely find yourself in an awkward situation. In order not to get upset about this, just learn to laugh at yourself.
Step 6. Show your intellectual ability
Remember, a frivolous girl can interest a guy for the evening, but only a smart girl can drive him crazy for many years.
You don't have to pretend that you are well versed in things that you really have no idea about. Respect your intellectual side. Don't try to sound like a genius, but don't be a fool either
Step 7. Respond to his courtship
Most guys look after girls, the guy needs to know that you are interested in him. All is well in moderation, do not give the impression that you are holding on to it as your last chance.
Make him do something to get closer to you. You should not immediately throw yourself on his neck. Be unattainable - both emotionally and physically. Tell him your thoughts and feelings little by little, do not rush. Instead of going to him with an overnight stay on the very first day of meeting, just kiss him, and then watch how things go
Step 8. Make him bored
Even if you don't want to leave him for a second, you will retain his attention much more if you are absent or not answering calls quite often.
- Be out of touch from time to time. Instead of joyfully resorting to his first call, answer that you have your own business. But make sure he invites you to meet another time.
- Let him jealous you a little. But be careful. Chat with your friends in front of him and talk about what parties you went to, how much fun you had, chat with other guys. But do not overdo it, because he may doubt your feelings for him.
Method 3 of 3: Part Three: Make him feel happy with you
Step 1. Let him be himself
Don't ask him to change. Everyone has their drawbacks, and if you're dating a guy, you both have to compromise on something. You don't have to demand major changes from him or the adoption of new values.
Step 2. Love his loved ones
Be friendly with his friends and acquaintances, take care of his family. Show interest in his loved ones and try to become a part of his life.
- You don't have to be the best friend to all of his friends and acquaintances, but you must communicate well enough with them. Do not try to become a close person to one of them, because this is how you provoke your boyfriend into jealousy.
- If a guy does not have a very good relationship with his family, and he does not want to talk about them too much, you should not interrogate him. Wait until he himself is ready to share his experiences with you.
Step 3. Take an interest in his hobbies
Of course, you don't have to love everything he does, but you should at least be interested in his hobbies and discuss his interests at least occasionally.
If he invites you to join in and do something fun together, give it a try! Even if you don't know anything about it. You can try to do his hobby with him, it is even possible that you will like it
Step 4. Compliment him
Praise him. Say something pleasant to him, coquettishly tell him that he is very courageous - he will definitely like it. Praise is always a powerful tool. Be sincere in your compliment.
- Praise not only his looks, but also his abilities, his ideas, and so on.
- Alternate compliments. Say that you are crazy about his beautiful eyes, and next week compliment his sense of humor. Say you never laughed like you did at his joke.
Step 5. Let him show his abilities
When you are together, he should act like a man. That is, you must allow him to take the initiative in everything and demonstrate his masculinity.
For example, if he opens the door for you or offers his jacket on a cold evening, you should accept his advances
Step 6. Support him
Let him be comfortable and cozy with you. When things go wrong, he needs to know that you will always be there and support him without any judgments.
And vice versa. You must give him his personal space. Most likely, he will want to be alone more often than you. He needs his personal space so that he sometimes feels independent, sometimes sees friends. Do not condemn him and do not demand something unearthly from him
Step 7. Spend time with him more often
Don't overdo it, guys get bored with girls who are always crazy about them. Just always listen carefully when he tells you something.
- For example, if he once told you about the fact that he had a dog when he was 12, you can somehow mention it later in the conversation.
- An easy way to demonstrate that you are always listening to him carefully is to memorize dates of birth and basic facts about his loved ones.