Throughout history, seductresses have always captivated men: from the legendary sirens in Homer's Odyssey to the burlesque theater, Marilyn Monroe and Brigitte Bardot. A woman who is in harmony with her sexuality and willingly takes the first (and second, and third) step is the most desirable character in male fantasies. Read on for the tips below and find out how to embody the look that will make any man fall at your feet.
Steps
Step 1. Learn to speak
Women are associated with beauty and grace, so you should represent the best you can. Learn to dance, sing, play an instrument, act, and so on. Dancing is arguably the best choice for a seductress due to its obvious connection to sexuality, but every other option works too.
Step 2. Show some body
Bare skin evokes thoughts of … well, you get the idea.
Step 3. Have long hair
They are associated with female beauty. Play with them, throw them back, let the strands fall over your eyes, and blow them off your face when they get in the way of your vision. Long, shiny, beautiful hair speaks of your health. You will never meet a sick person with a magnificent head of hair.
Step 4. Learn to feel comfortable with your sexuality
If men look at you lasciviously, pinch you, or call you kitty, show that you don't like it. But for this it is enough just to wince or smile with one corner of the lips. Remember that you have authority over them, and that is the worst thing they can do to you (see Warnings).
Step 5. Show your weakness
Your voice should be high-pitched and musical. Ask a man to explain these things to you. Pretend you are weaker than you really are: ask your man to lift weights and do difficult things for you. While you may have enough strength, you shouldn't make it too obvious to a man. It has an instinct to protect and provide for you.
Step 6. Become a lady
You should always behave sexy, subtly hint that you love sex, talk about other taboo topics, but never talk about sex directly.
Step 7. Flirt verbally
If you are interested in a militia / police officer or military, admit that you "love men in uniform." If you are attracted to a teacher or a scientist, discover the secret that "you prefer brains to muscles." It is very effective to use the classic tactics of Marilyn Monroe: in accordance with it, you must make it clear that you melt from this type of man and become pliable, like wax in warm hands.
Step 8. Flirt physically
Touch his hand. Give him a massage. Run your fingers through his hair.
Step 9. Take the first step
And then - and the second, and the third. If you are a real seductress, a man will not be able to think at all. And it will give all the initiative to you.
Advice
- You don't need to sleep with anyone to become a seductress. If you still cannot resist this, it is better to completely abandon this image. Sad but true: men are usually repulsed by too promiscuous women.
- The seductress is subtly sexy and never vulgar. It is a carefully crafted image: inside it is a raging volcano of passion, but outside it is Lady Perfection. You have to find a balance.
- The key to being a seductress is that a man needs to make minimal efforts to win you over: he is already your ideal lover. Men spend their whole lives trying to change so as to meet the impossible, in their opinion, the requirements of women. If you like a man for who he is, then he almost loses the ability to resist.
- You don't have to be beautiful to be a seductress (Cleopatra is not believed to have been beautiful, but she seduced Caesar, Pompey, and Mark Antony), but it definitely helps. It's hard to exude sexuality if men don't find you attractive. You must be at least six out of ten on the famous male ten-point scale.
- Men are usually not particularly suspicious about feminine motives, so it's relatively easy to convince him that he is in control of the situation and seduces you, and not vice versa.
Warnings
- Please don't be frivolous. Otherwise, people will take advantage of you.
- Date rape is more than real, so never go out with a guy you don't trust or don't know well, and take all the necessary precautions.
- It is very likely that after just one evening with you as a seductress, a man will become obsessed with you. Take precautions.
- If you think that the guy should be responsible for all the work on the relationship, then this image is not for you.