How to talk to a guy if you are very shy

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How to talk to a guy if you are very shy
How to talk to a guy if you are very shy
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If you are shy, then here is the article you should definitely read.

Steps

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 1
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 1

Step 1. First, try waving at him or at least smiling

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 2
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 2

Step 2. After a few days, when your shyness starts to fade into the background and confidence begins to wake up in you, gather up the courage and say "Hi, (his name)"

Say hello to him every day, and the guy will understand that you are interested in his candidacy.

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 3
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 3

Step 3. Do this for one to two weeks

Even if you missed a few days, don't worry, he still remembers you.

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 4
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 4

Step 4. Try to find out what he enjoys

Perhaps he is a member of a club, and you can join him too.

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 5
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 5

Step 5. Then ask the guy for help (what kind of help this will be depends on the specifics of the club)

Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 6
Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy Step 6

Step 6. Now it will be much easier for you to strike up a conversation, but if you are still shy, follow all the steps of the instructions again

Advice

  • Don't forget to smile! This is one of the most important rules!
  • If he does something and you really enjoy it, don't be afraid to smile or laugh. This will show that you have a sense of humor and that you find this guy funny. Guys like girls with a sense of humor, they also like to be seen as funny.
  • As soon as you meet your gaze, be sure to smile at him.
  • Look at him. As soon as he senses your gaze and looks at you, smile at him.
  • If you blush, then try not to notice the guy. Redness speaks of self-doubt, and this quality, most often, guys do not like.
  • Try to find out as much as possible about him.
  • Your conversations don't have to be on schedule; the communication should be natural.
  • Ask your best friend for help, especially if she knows about relationships.
  • Do what he does.

Warnings

  • Remember that he is not the only guy on Earth.
  • Remember that guys also have feelings, but most young people hide them in every possible way. Look at the guy with different eyes. If you think you have offended him, ask him for forgiveness or ask what you did wrong.
  • If he is in trouble, do not add fuel to the fire, but do something to help the guy forget about it.
  • Do not discuss it with anyone.

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