Striking up a relationship with that very special guy, but you don't know how to get the long-awaited first kiss? Follow our tips to hint your boyfriend that you are really looking forward to his kiss.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Creating a Mood
Step 1. Thoroughly brush your teeth and tongue before meeting
You can also floss your teeth, it doesn't hurt at all. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath or food debris stuck between their teeth.
Step 2. Stay alone
The guy probably wants to kiss you, but is shy about kissing in front of other people. Only when he is alone will he feel an irresistible urge to kiss you. When hanging out with friends or at a party, find a suitable excuse to be alone. Walk up to the guy, touch his hand and say that you want to talk. Or grab his hand and lead him - he's your boyfriend, after all!
Stay close to the guy while being alone. If you are not close enough or there is an obstacle between you, he may think that you do not want to kiss
Step 3. Create a romantic setting
You don't have to set a candlelit dinner to add a touch of romance. Anything that involves physical intimacy will do. It's even better to give the moment some sexual tension if you can.
- Invite your boyfriend to watch a movie or show. Let him sit down first on the sofa. You can even leave the room for a short while under the pretext of making popcorn so that it will be the first to take a seat on the couch. When you return, sit closer to the guy, leaving him no opportunity to chicken out and leave the room. Most likely, he will hug you, which will be an important step on the path to kissing.
- Have a picnic in a secluded spot. While on a picnic, snuggle up to the guy, taking strawberries or grapes in your hand, and letting him know that you want to feed him. Move your gaze from his eyes to his lips and back. Lightly touch your fingers to the guy's lips when feeding him fruit.
Step 4. Come up with clever tricks to bond with your boyfriend
If he is shy, he will probably look for a subtle moment to get closer to your face, so give him that opportunity. Come up with a clever trick to get closer to each other. When he leans towards you, create an incredibly seductive image that lets you know how much you crave a kiss. Your cunning must create the moment he has been looking for to kiss you.
Tell the guy that you want to get a better look at the color of his eyes or it seems like a speck has got into your eye, and you will be grateful if he looks. In addition, you can pretend that the guy has a crumb on his face, bend over and, wiping it off, sensually look into his eyes
Method 2 of 3: Give physical hints
Step 1. Break the touch barrier if you haven't already
Touch his elbow, hold his hands, or gently place your hand on his knee. Breaking down that barrier will help both of you overcome some of the experiences of physical contact.
Having overcome the barrier of touch, do not stop there. If you laugh, place your palm in his hand. While walking, take the guy's hand and don't let go. We hope he senses your intention and also begins to hold your hand
Step 2. Hug the guy
A hug will let him know that you enjoy physical intimacy and that you really feel comfortable around him. This is the most meaningful hint you can give him, and besides, hugs always lead to kisses.
Place your head on the guy's shoulder as you hug. Interlace your fingers with his and lean back with a sense of contentment. All these physical hints will tell the guy: “I love being in your arms so much, and now kiss me, silly boy!”
Step 3. Work on your facial expressions
Focus all of the guy's attention on your lips, and he will inevitably be tempted to kiss you. Do your best to keep his attention on your lips. The classic maneuver is to bite your lip while looking at the guy.
- Apply lipstick to your lips (let the guy see you do it). Just keep in mind that lip gloss can be sticky and so will a kiss. Use lip balm or chapstick to avoid a sticky situation.
- If it's hot outside, run an ice cube over your lips. Not only does it look very seductive, it also gives the lips a lip-like gloss.
- Lick your lips as if you were eating something juicy. If you eat watermelon, ice cream, or anything that drips, leave the drop on your lips and then slowly lick it off. But be careful not to look sloppy. You want to seduce, not look like a girl in serious need of a napkin.
Step 4. Flirt with your eyes
Eye contact is a large part of hinting to a guy that you expect a kiss from him. Look into his eyes and smile tenderly. Let your eyes shine with a smile. Move your gaze a couple of times from his eyes to his lips, flapping your eyelashes slightly if possible.
Here's another way to flirt with your gaze: When looking at each other, especially when your faces are very close, hold eye contact for a moment, and then look down in embarrassment. Look down for a while, and then turn your gaze back
Step 5. Make some serious hints when you say goodbye to your boyfriend
This is especially important if you are looking forward to a good evening kiss. As you say goodbye, hug the guy harder and kiss him on the cheek. Then look into his eyes. Even if he doesn't kiss you at the same moment, you will demonstrate to him that you feel great with kisses and physical contact.
When hugging a guy, tilt your head to his chest to be as close as possible. Use an irresistible perfume before applying this maneuver, and he can't help but notice how delicious you smell
Method 3 of 3: Hint verbally
Step 1. Flirt with words
Just because he's already your boyfriend doesn't mean you don't need to flirt anymore. Flirting keeps relationships vibrant and healthy, and also shows that you are still in love. Play shyness and tease him (but not too much). You can even tease him without letting him kiss you (this is a sure sign that you are really looking forward to a kiss)
Send your boyfriend flirty text messages when you're not together. Flirty, funny messages are a great way to be cute without even being around them. But keep in mind that you don't need to overwhelm the guy with messages, otherwise it will have the opposite effect
Step 2. Let the guy feel confident
Guys like to feel like big, strong men in a girl's life, so let him feel that way. Even if you don't necessarily need him to open the tightly closed lid on the can, it's a good idea to cheer him up by complimenting his strong muscles. Of course, this is another form of flirting, but it definitely boosts a guy's confidence and hopefully after that he dares and kisses you!
Step 3. Be direct and ask your boyfriend for a kiss
Straightforwardness has its pros and cons. The plus is that, most likely, you will achieve instant results and demonstrate your confidence to the guy, which is very sexy. The downside is that the immediate result may not be what you expected. It may still take a guy a while to get over his shyness, or he may not be as keen on kissing as you thought. Be that as it may, you will get a certain result and release the guy from the pressure by telling him exactly what you want from him.
You can state your desire sexually and still directly. Saying goodbye, bend over to the guy so that your lips caress his ear and whisper something like: "Kiss me" or "I want to kiss you so much."Most likely, your words and a gentle touch of your ear with your lips will be enough for the guy to part with any possible shyness and go straight to the kiss
Advice
- Don't force the guy! Nobody likes forced kissing.
- By your wide smile and hugs after the kiss, the guy will understand that everything went well and you are very happy about this, which will make him happier too!
- In order not to feel uncomfortable after a kiss, always look deeply into his eyes and smile meaningfully.
- Don't be nervous so as not to make the guy nervous.
- If the kiss isn't good at first, don't panic! Most likely, he was nervous. Don't show your boyfriend that something went wrong. Try kissing again if you like!
- If a guy comes to visit you, and a brother or sister is at home, try not to bother you, otherwise the guy will not want to kiss.
- If everything goes well the first time, try playing with his hair. It is fun and flirty, and also shows that you enjoy kissing.
- Don't worry if you don't get a kiss the first time. Some guys are more shy than others when it comes to physical contact.
- If a guy is known to be a master of kissing, don't worry, because chances are you will learn a lot from kissing him and he will enjoy kissing you!
- If all attempts fail, take the first step! Kiss your guy and watch his reaction. He'll probably be grateful that you took the first step.
- If a guy isn't kissing you, he is most likely just shy or feeling that you are in too much of a hurry. Give it some time.
- If you want another kiss, give him a calm, pleasant smile and keep kissing.