Falling in love with a person can be a very exciting and a little intimidating experience at the same time. If the guy who caught your attention already knows that you like him, this may be especially exciting for you. You are probably also wondering how you should behave around him. However, you can confidently approach him if you come up with casual ways to start a conversation, stay calm, and move the relationship forward. Be yourself and this guy will fall in love with you in no time!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Start a Conversation
Step 1. Begin by passing comments
You might be a little anxious to just walk up to the person you like and start a conversation, so start small. Release the comment as it passes you in class or study.
When you meet in the corridor, you can say something like: "Nice shirt, Anton!" Release comments once or twice a day
Step 2. Ask for a favor
Try to put yourself in a position where you might need help from someone you like. For example, after a work meeting, ask him to clarify a boss’s words, or borrow a pencil in class.
- You might say, “Hi, did your boss want us to use Excel for these documents? I am not very familiar with this program. Can you show me what he meant? "
- Or: “Artem, I can't get this book off the shelf. Can you help me?"
Step 3. Joke with him
Now that he knows you like him, there may be some tension between you, so break the ice with humor. If something funny happens in class or in a meeting where you are both, make a joke about it. You can also show him funny memes or videos on your phone.
Let's say you find a hilarious video on the internet. Say: “Petya, have you seen this video? I laughed at him all evening. "
Step 4. Talk about things that interest both of you
Perhaps you are already friends with the person you like, or maybe you just noticed that you have a lot in common. Use what you've already discussed or these similarities to talk to him and avoid embarrassment.
- You might say, “Hi, I remember you said you liked Game of Thrones.” Have you watched the final? It was epic! "
- Or: “I noticed that you were wearing a T-shirt with the image of Yegor Creed. I really like his music. I'm thinking about going to his concert. "
Step 5. Ask him open-ended questions
When we are nervous, we go around and around and carry all kinds of nonsense. Asking questions to someone you like is a great way to avoid meaningless conversations and get them to open up. Ask him questions that require more detailed answers than just "yes" or "no".
You can say: “Hi, Semyon, I noticed that you did a very good job with the report that the boss ordered. What strategies did you use? I want to improve my next report. "
Step 6. Eliminate any awkwardness between you
Maybe someone told this guy that you like him, or you did it yourself, but he didn't react the way you hoped. If you really want to communicate with him, it's worth removing the awkwardness. Talk to him about your feelings and let him know that you want to have a casual relationship with him.
Say: “Hi Ilya, I know that Natasha told you that I like you. I can't say that this is a lie, but if you do not feel reciprocity, then it's okay. I still want to be friends with you, no matter what. "
Method 2 of 3: Keep your cool
Step 1. Relax before meeting him
Take a few deep breaths before starting a conversation with your lover. You should be absolutely calm when you approach him. You can also listen to music to boost your mood and self-confidence in advance.
For example, listening to James Brown's song “I feel good” might cheer you up and prepare you for this conversation
Step 2. Smile and make eye contact as you greet
When meeting a guy, do not look at the floor and do not be embarrassed - show him your snow-white smile! Smiling is a great way to help other people feel comfortable, and it can even lift your own mood. Show him that you don't mind letting him know your secret by being nice and friendly.
Step 3. Dress to impress
Dress appropriately to feel confident. On the days when you know you will see him, spend a little extra time getting ready. Iron your clothes the night before and wear a blouse that highlights your eye color. Be sure to style your hair and apply some good-smelling scent.
For example, you can wear a form-fitting dress or blouse that shows off your beautiful arms
Step 4. Visualize how you behave calmly and calmly when you meet him
When you are at home, close your eyes and imagine yourself heading straight for him, confident, happy, and at ease. You will probably find that it will be much easier for you to do this in real life with an already created image in your head.
You can also rehearse a conversation with him in front of the mirror to be in all weapons
Step 5. Give him personal space
Don't always be the first to greet, smile, or wave. Sometimes guys need a little space and that's okay. Let him sometimes come up to you first so that the dynamics of the relationship are not so one-sided.
However, don't ignore it! If he looks at you, look back at him. If he speaks to you, be sure to answer. You don't need him to think that you are a rude person
Method 3 of 3: Move the relationship forward
Step 1. Flirt with him
If he already knows what you like, why not keep showing interest? Laugh at his jokes, periodically touch his hand during his speech, or give him flirty compliments. You can also stare at him across the room for a few seconds and smile a little so that he knows he’s getting your attention.
You can say something like: "Sasha, you are so beautiful today" - and give him a bright smile
Step 2. Spend time in the places where you know he will be
People tend to like those with whom they are often in close proximity. Get closer to your lover so that you have more opportunities to connect with him and to please him. Sit next to him in class or go to parties he might attend.
If he gets annoyed at meeting you or asks you to leave, leave him alone. Try not to communicate with him after that. You deserve a guy who gives you positive attention
Step 3. Invite him to do something exciting
People also tend to feel a stronger bond with those with whom they share exciting or adrenaline-inducing activities. Take a few minutes to invite your loved one to do something similar with you.
- You can invite him to go with you to an amusement park or watch a horror movie in your home. This will help strengthen the bond between you and provide topics for discussion.
- You could say, “Hi Pasha, I have tickets to the amusement park for this weekend. Want to go with me? It should be a lot of fun there. "
Step 4. Tell him how you feel
If your lover finds out what you like from someone else, give him the opportunity to hear it from you directly. Or perhaps you've already told him this and want to try another chance before giving up. Either way, talk to him and share your feelings.
Say, “Hi, I know that you already know about my sympathy. I just wanted to know if my feelings were mutual. If not, I will not bother you about this again, but I hope we can keep a relaxed relationship anyway.”
Step 5. Move on if he doesn't show interest in you
Your feelings won't always be mutual, and that's okay! If he is not very talkative when you approach him, if he tries to avoid you or looks away when he passes nearby, as if not noticing, move on. You deserve a guy who will give you his all. Go out more often, and soon you will surely find the perfect partner for you!
Ask a friend to set you up with someone they know, or consider talking to another guy you might have an eye on
Step 6. If possible, stay friends
If he doesn't like you in return, don't worry! You two can still be great friends. There will always be at least one guy who will not love you as much as you will love him, and that can be hard to accept. However, if he is a cheerful and kind person, don't let this situation ruin your friendship. Continue to communicate and behave normally, but let go of your romantic feelings. Not the only pebble on the beach!