The desire to show yourself in your best light in front of an ex-boyfriend or just in front of a young man who you really like is quite natural and normal. In fact, there are many ways to look attractive, from the right clothes to eye-catching makeup and accessories. Smiling more often and looking him in the eye are two main ways to show positive body language. Exude confidence and stay true to yourself, and your ex, or just a guy you like, will surely find you very attractive.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Choose clothes and accessories
Step 1. Choose an outfit that will fit you well
When choosing clothes that you are going to appear in front of an ex or a boyfriend you like, you should choose those things that emphasize your figure well and help you feel more confident. A great option that suits most figures is clothing that emphasizes the waist. For example, it could be high-waisted pants or jeans, or a tight-fitting dress.
- For example, if you have long legs, you can wear a long dress to the floor or, conversely, a miniskirt. And if you are a lucky owner of an hourglass figure, a tight dress or other tight clothing will look great on you.
- Pay attention to fluffy dresses and skirts with an accentuated waist.
- Sweatshirts and tops with a V-neck and a plunging neckline will give your neckline a feminine curve.
Step 2. To give yourself a little more confidence, put on something new
New things really boost our self-confidence and help us believe that we look irresistible. So head to your favorite store and pick a new skirt, pants, or dress to wear to impress your ex or boyfriend you like.
- It is not at all necessary to dress completely new. Even one new item (be it a T-shirt, sweater, hat, or shoes) can help boost your confidence.
- You can choose a new blouse that will definitely impress your ex or the boyfriend you like. Or you can opt for cool new jeans.
Step 3. If you are wearing a school uniform, put on some jewelry
For example, you can add a couple of accessories to your look: a belt, a hat, or a scarf. These simple accessories will help you look stylish and original, especially if you have to walk in almost the same clothes. Choose jewelry and accessories that are tasteful and match your look and season. To make your outfit look stylish, you can put one jacket on top of another (in several layers).
- Wear cool, original socks that go well with your shape, or wear a bandana if it fits your look.
- Wear a colorful belt that can be worn with school pants.
- Even small accessories and jewelry (such as a bracelet and necklace) will help dilute the look and look beautiful.
Step 4. Put on long dangling earrings that will beautifully highlight your neck and shoulders
Draw attention to the neckline and shoulders for a more feminine and attractive look. Wear long earrings, choosing those that complement your look and suit you in spirit.
- For example, you can wear gold dangling earrings with a red, navy, or gold summer dress.
- To show your personality, choose earrings with feathers, beads or other interesting details.
Step 5. Choose shoes with heels, thanks to which your look will be more advantageous
High heels will make you look more attractive and feminine. Choose shoes with heels or wedges that match the color of the main outfit. But before that, make sure you can safely wear them! It is important that you feel comfortable and cozy in them.
- For example, you can wear black classic heels with a skirt and top. Or you can wear wedges with a sweater or dress.
- It is best to wear high heels to various extracurricular activities such as walks with friends or discos.
Method 2 of 3: Apply makeup and style your hair
Step 1. Apply a minimum of makeup to look more or less natural
If you have any irregularities on your skin that you want to hide, you can use a base or concealer to match your skin. Apply makeup with a sponge or brush and then spread it evenly over the skin.
You can also apply some bronzer or blush, but don't overdo it for a natural-looking skin tone
Step 2. Line up your eyes with an eyeliner or ink to visually highlight the eyes and make them larger.
The eyeliner and mascara effect will make your eyes look more expressive, grabbing the attention of your ex or your favorite boyfriend. Gently apply eyeliner or eyeliner along the contour of the eyelid in slow, gentle strokes. Apply mascara to lashes, brushing from root to tip, curling slightly.
- Decide how thick the arrow you are going to draw should be. Keep in mind that the thinner the arrow, the more natural your makeup looks.
- Apply mascara to the top of your lashes, curling and combing.
Step 3. To draw attention to the lips, apply an iridescent gloss to the lips
You can apply a clear lip balm, or you can apply gloss or lipstick in a pale pink or red color. Apply one coat of gloss to lips first and then spread it evenly.
- You can buy lip gloss at your local drugstore or any beauty or perfume store.
- If you have fair skin, a pale pink lip gloss works best. If you have dark skin, a darker lipstick, such as red, will work well.
Step 4. Style your hair to add volume
Give it a puff - usually curvy hair looks more attractive. Try curling your hair or curling it with a curling iron, blow dry and apply a volume foam.
- Loose hair and large curls will add charm to your look.
- If you decide to make a radical change in your image, sign up for a hairdresser for a completely new haircut.
Step 5. To emphasize individuality and become unforgettable, buy a unique perfume
Choose a perfume with a pleasant, but not very pungent scent. Spray a little perfume on the crown and neck - these are the places where the scent lasts the longest. A pleasant scent will definitely grab the attention of your ex or the boyfriend you like as soon as he is around.
- If you are not a perfume lover, just use a shampoo with a pleasant scent - it also attracts attention.
- Go to a beauty or perfume store, test out a few scents and pick the one you like best.
Method 3 of 3: Demonstrate Positive Body Language
Step 1. Try to monitor your posture - this way you will look more confident
Stand straight, chest forward, shoulders relaxed. Try not to cross your arms or slouch when walking or just standing. The correct posture will make you look more confident and attractive.
- If you are standing somewhere in the hallway chatting with friends, try not to lean against the wall.
- Keep your back straight and straighten your shoulders. Stick to this position even while sitting.
Step 2. To look friendly and open, smile
Smiling is one of the simplest ways to look prettier and more social. When you are with your ex-boyfriend or boyfriend you like, look him in the eye and then smile. Your smile should be as natural and genuine as possible.
Take care of your teeth and keep them whitened - this is the key to a beautiful smile. You can use a special home whitening kit, or you can try to whiten your teeth slightly with the help of improvised means like baking soda, but still doing it yourself is highly discouraged
Step 3. To somehow start communication and establish contact, look into his eyes
You don't need to stare at him frankly, just look him in the eyes and hold your gaze for a couple of seconds - so, hopefully, you will attract his attention and look more confident in his eyes.
- If your ex-boyfriend or boyfriend you like catches your eye, try holding it for a couple of seconds, then smile and look away.
- Try not to look at him for more than three seconds at a time, otherwise it will look like you are staring at him.
Step 4. To avoid looking like you don't care, put your phone aside
Perhaps, with the phone in your hands, you will be more comfortable in the company of a guy, but in such a situation it would be better to tuck it away - in your pocket or bag. After all, your attention is a sign that you are involved in what is happening around, and are not distracted by extraneous factors.
It's okay to get distracted for a second or two and look at your phone, but try to keep it away if you're not using it at the moment
Step 5. Be yourself
You will probably feel more confident (whether in the company of a guy or any other situation) if you do not try to pretend to be someone you are not. Just be yourself, show your individuality, whatever it is: you can wear your favorite clothes, you can behave funny and stupid, you can tell something interesting about your hobbies and hobbies.
You don't have to dress or act a certain way just to please a guy
Advice
- Do a manicure or pedicure and cover your nails with varnish - this will make your fingers look neater and more attractive.
- If you're having a conversation with a boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, try to stick to positive and informal topics.
- Always practice good personal hygiene, take a shower, brush your teeth, and use deodorant to smell good and feel fresh and well-groomed.
- If you're worried and nervous about being around a former boyfriend or boyfriend you like, invite your girlfriends with you to feel more confident.