Oh-oh! It seems that a girl who is in love with you follows you everywhere … You know very well that you like her, but you would really not want her to follow you and you definitely do not want to meet with her. Now what? Here are some ways to escape this girl.
Step 1. Talk to her
Tell her that you like her attention, but don't want a relationship right now. Help her understand what it means to be busy and emotionally unavailable. Here are some good excuses:
- "I am currently focused on work / training."
- "Study comes first for me."
Step 2. Give her a few days to process this information
Let's hope she leaves you alone. If not, continue with the next steps.
Step 3. Try not to make eye contact
Every time she tries to approach you, pretend you can't see her and talk to your friends as if through her. It might break her heart, but isn't that what you want?
Step 4. Nod when you mime in the hallway and do not smile, so that this is not a greeting, but recognition
A smile is always interpreted as a reward.
Step 5. Don't pick up the phone when she calls you
Never reply to her messages, even to say that you are not interested in her; it means you've read the message, which will give her hope.
Step 6. Try not to talk to her
This will strengthen her hope, and it will be too easy to misinterpret your enthusiasm.
Step 7. Find someone for her
If she insists and seems cute enough to you, set her up with someone else!