Did you like that cute boy from the parallel class? Learn how to get his attention, communicate, and spend time with him. It should be understood that you cannot make a person fall in love, but you can become a good girl and get to know him better so that he understands what a wonderful person you are!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: How to Get Attention
Step 1. Make eye contact and smile
Look at the boy when you are around and smile. He needs to know that you are friendly and that you enjoy looking at him. It is advisable not to overdo it, but you should definitely catch his gaze several times during a lesson, competition or holiday. Try to look away timidly or look firmly in the eyes when he pays attention to you.
Step 2. Dress attractively
Choose your favorite outfit that makes you feel irresistible and that fits comfortably so you can feel confident the next time you meet. You don’t have to choose “stylish” clothes that others are wearing, as he may not share such tastes or simply not understand fashion, but he will always notice when you feel confident and relaxed.
Step 3. Do light makeup and hair
Experiment with makeup and hairstyle, but keep it simple and build on your own feelings. Remember to keep your hygiene in mind: brush your teeth regularly, shower and wash your hair, and use deodorant.
- Loosen your hair, tie it in a ponytail or a bun - choose what you like best. You can also curl or straighten your curls a little to freshen up your hair.
- You can use a dash of mascara and concealer or foundation to hide any redness or acne.
Step 4. Come closer
Stand next to the boy in the company or move over if you are sitting at the same desk. You can even lightly touch his arm while talking, or playfully nudge him on the shoulder if he's teasing or joking. Watch for feedback signals. Not everyone likes it when people touch them or invade their personal space. This does not mean that he does not like you.
If you don't want to get very close or touch him, you can simply repeat his movements. If he crosses his arms over his chest, props his head with one hand, or puts his hands in his pockets while talking to you, then wait about 20 seconds and do the same or a similar action. This method allows you to casually show your interest and attention
Step 5. Get the boy to ask you a question
Observe what books he reads, what music he listens to, or what commands he supports. When he's around, start reading a book by the same author or wear a T-shirt with a picture of a group he likes to start a conversation with you.
Step 6. Write a love letter
Write a cute or funny note and slip it into his backpack discreetly. You can sign the letter with a conditional name or word and invite him to guess the author using clues. Use simple jokes or compliments in your emails to avoid sounding overly direct or sentimental.
Method 2 of 3: How to Build Communication
Step 1. Find common interests
Ask the boy about family, interests, studies, movies, books, and sports to find topics of conversation. Common interests will become the reason for new conversations and even invitations to spend time together - watch a TV series, play sports, or just discuss the news. If you both like basketball, say, “Look, I have a basketball hoop in my yard. Maybe we can play together sometime?"
Step 2. Show your mental abilities
Show how smart you are by telling him interesting facts, helping with homework, or sharing useful information. Never belittle your ability or pretend to be a fool to get his attention.
Step 3. Be honest
Be honest about yourself and answer questions honestly. Better not to use harmless deception in order to please the boy more. The truth will always come out and he will simply lose interest in you when he finds out about the deception.
If he says “I like folk music,” then there is no need to say that you also like it very much, if this is not true. Try continuing the conversation differently: “This is great. I prefer modern music, but overall I'm a music lover! What performers do you listen to? "
Step 4. Learn to listen
Keep a close eye on the conversation and memorize details that can be remembered in subsequent conversations. Give the conversation your full attention to show genuine interest.
Step 5. Tell everything straight
If you have been in contact with the boy for a while, then say bluntly that you like him! Say, “You are so cute and funny. Maybe we can go somewhere together? " or “I like you more than my friend. I would go on a date with you!"
Step 6. Tease and be playful
Make up jokes, tease the boy (but not rude!) Or even offer to determine who is stronger, just to hold hands. Impress him with a win or lose to make him feel strong.
Method 3 of 3: Spending Time Together
Step 1. Spend time in an informal setting
Invite him to go with your company to the cinema, to a holiday or a sports match. If he agrees, then you can spend time together and at the same time no one will be ashamed, because you will not be left alone.
Try chatting with his friends and invite them to walk together. It will be easier for you to persuade the boy to go with you if you say that his friends will be there as well
Step 2. Communicate at recess
Find him after class, if you study in different classes, and if in one class, it is even easier - just talk to him during recess.
Step 3. Have lunch together
Sit down at the next table or next to it in the dining room. This will help you communicate more at school.
Step 4. Do what he likes
Come to games in which he participates or is present as a spectator, sign up for a club, go shopping, play bowling or visit the cafeteria where he spends time with friends. Make eye contact and start a conversation.
Step 5. Make friends with his friends
Try to get close to his friends so that the boy understands that he will be interested in you too. Thanks to your friends, you can see each other more often and get to know each other better.
Step 6. Invite him out on a date
If you are ready to take the plunge, then invite him to meet! Choose a simple activity, such as cycling after class. If you want to go on a more traditional date, go to a café or a movie. The activity should be to your liking and facilitate communication.
Try to offer a completely spontaneous date in an informal setting: “I really want ice cream now! Let's go to the store soon! "
Advice
- All boys have different interests and tastes. Think less about outfit and makeup (they almost never notice it anyway!) And try more to be sincere, kind, and considerate during conversations.
- Keep in mind that boys of this age are just starting to grow up and may be afraid that their friends will tease them. Therefore, the boy is unlikely to take an active interest in you. Next year he will be 13, and then he will most likely start to fall in love.
Warnings
- Don't change your look for the guys. If you overdo it, he may lose interest in you or fall in love with qualities that you don't really have.
- Don't be discouraged if the boy you like shows no interest and refuses to date. Perhaps he is not ready to date yet or wants to get to know you better. Know that you are a good person, whether you have a boy or not.