Perhaps you have been in love with a guy for some time or have just met, but are already ready to move to a new level in your relationship. You know you want a kiss, but you're not sure if he wants to. How do you get him to take the first step? Hint at the kiss with both your gestures and words, and see how it reacts. It will help you go from flirting to kissing!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Hinting Your Interest
Step 1. Sit or stand next to the guy and touch him to show that you are comfortable with him
Sit next to him so that your feet touch, touch his shoulder or arm. This will let him know that you are interested in him and ready to get a little closer.
With body language
Turn to him
Turn your whole body toward him, or at least your head, to show that you are interested.
If you are sitting try stretch one leg and turn your body slightly. This will make you look relaxed and attractive.
Relax
Put your hands in your pockets or grab something to prevent your hands from fiddling with objects. Don't pinch your shoulders. Show your boyfriend that you are comfortable and confident.
Step 2. Make eye contact
Frequent eye contact will help you get your guy's attention. Make eye contact as you talk to him to show that you are interested in your conversation. If you haven't spoken before, try to catch his gaze, smile, hold your gaze, and then look away. He will understand that this is flirting and what you think of him.
Advice
try looking at one of his eyes, then at the other, and then below at his mouth. This will hint to him that you are interested and that you want to kiss him.
Step 3. Bite your lips to draw attention to your mouth
Bite lightly on your lower lip while looking into his eyes and smiling. You can lick your lips or touch your mouth casually. These simple actions will draw his attention to your lips and nudge him to the first step.
But don't overdo it! Bite your lips 1-2 times during the entire conversation or you will look strange
Step 4. Ask him to kiss you while flirting with him
If your hints are not enough, but you can see for sure that he is interested in you, try to go further. Making a direct request can feel awkward, so the request can be made more playful. This will make you appear confident and attractive. Move closer to him and say this:
- "Well, now will you kiss me?"
- "I just wanted to say that if you want to kiss me, I will not mind."
- "Let's not beat around the bush - just kiss me."
Step 5. Observe his actions
When you start hanging out with a guy, look for signs that he is interested in you. This will allow you to understand whether it is worth striving for a kiss with him or it is better to give up this venture. Most likely, he is interested if:
- he tries to get close to you and does his best for this;
- he playfully touches you: tickles you, touches his hands, removes his hair from his face;
- he compliments you or teases you;
- he often looks at you and looks away when you notice it;
- he is nervous in your presence, fiddling with objects, or more often than not speaking.
Method 2 of 3: How to kiss a guy
Step 1. Apply chapstick to your lips and think about fresh breath if you think kissing is possible
You may not be able to get your lipstick in time if everything happens quickly, but you should always keep your breath fresh if you plan on kissing someone. Keep mints handy and use chapstick regularly.
- If you paint your lips with him, it will draw attention to your mouth and let him know what you think about kissing.
- Don't eat garlic, onions, processed cheese - these foods smell bad. If you've already eaten something that smells bad, rinse your mouth with water, eat a peppermint, or chew gum.
Step 2. Copy his actions
If he leans towards you, do the same. If you don't know how much to open your mouth, let him control the situation. Surely he himself does not know! Stay in your comfort zone and copy his actions to make the kiss enjoyable for both of you.
It is important to copy his actions, but at the same time not be afraid to slow down if you think that he is moving too fast for you
Step 3. Tilt your head and close your eyes
When he leans towards you, look in which direction he tilts his head. Tilt your head to the opposite side to avoid head bumping. If you're comfortable, don't open your eyes.
Even if you are nervous, try to move slowly and not strain
Step 4. Start with light movements
It's important to keep things easy at first. Move slowly - lightly touch your lips to his lips. This will excite him, and you can understand what his reaction will be.
How to kiss
Try lightly sucking on one of his lips. or just press your lips to his lips.
Relax your lips and do not squeeze them, otherwise the kiss will come out less romantic.
Do not be nervous
Do what feels natural to you. It's that simple!
Step 5. Place your hands on his neck or shoulders to pull him towards you
The touch of the hands makes the kiss more natural. Let him know that you like it. Place your hands on your shoulders, on your chest, press them against his cheeks and slightly pull him towards you. If you're comfortable, try running your hand through his hair or playing with your fingers.
Step 6. Before you take the next step, pay attention to his reaction
If he gets close to you, touches your face, waist or shoulders, he loves a kiss. You can try deepening the kiss, or gradually pull back.
' If he doesn't like a kiss, he will be tense. He may not move his lips or try to push his body away from you. In this case, just step back from him.
If he didn't like the kiss, try to leave quickly under some pretext (for example, "my friends are waiting for me, I will go, see you again"). If you want to talk, say this: “Is everything okay? Maybe it happened too quickly?"
If he likes a kiss try pressing a little harder or moving a little faster. All of this will make the kiss more interesting for both of you.
Step 7. Use your tongue when ready
You don't have to kiss in French right away, but if you are ready, proceed slowly and gently. Open your mouth slightly, then slide your tongue over his lower lip. If his lips part, gently slide your tongue into his mouth.
Move your tongue, don't just hold it in his mouth. Move easily and playfully. Movements should be gentle and slow so that the guy does not get scared
Step 8. Step back and smile so that he knows you liked the kiss
When you're ready to finish the kiss, slowly pull back and open your eyes. Take a breath, look at him and smile. He will be glad to see that you enjoyed the kiss, which will increase the likelihood that the kiss will be repeated.
- You can say that you liked it or that you have been waiting for this kiss for a long time.
- If you want the kiss to last, get closer to the guy. Touch his shoulders, snuggle against his chest. If you would like more personal space, take a step back.
Method 3 of 3: How to flirt with a guy to get him interested
Step 1. Talk to him about interesting things to get to know him better
Conversation in a relaxed atmosphere will allow you to bond and kiss. Start sitting next to him during lunch or in class, walk past his desk at work, go to a cafe or bar he likes. Start talking about interesting things, common interests, or what he likes.
Say so
“Are you mountaineering? We just got the hooks in the gym and I want to try climbing them, but I've never done that before. Do you have any advice for me?"
“How much homework was given to us today! Now I have no time for anything. Do you understand anything about these topics?"
"You have a dog? Great, I was told something recently, but I don't know whether to believe it or not. Is it true that a dog can find its way home in a year? I was told about a dog that got lost 10 months ago and recently returned home. Blimey!"
Step 2. Make fun of him so that he does not relax
Perhaps because of this, he decides to try to impress you. Make fun of him, suggest that he do something on the dispute. All this will let him know that you are interested in him, and he will want to talk to you. Try saying this:
- “You've got so many potatoes! You can't eat it all. Give me half! "
- “Let me guess how long it took you to do your English homework. 10 minutes? Ha, I thought the maximum was 5 ".
Step 3. Greet him and smile at the meeting
As you start talking to your guy more often, try to smile and say hello to him whenever you see him. Wave at him or wink as you walk past him. Linger near his desk, make faces at him. That way he will know what you think of him and will think of you!
For example, if you walk past each other in the hallway, say hello or just wave your hand and smile
Step 4. From time to time, write funny things to him that remind you of him
Send him funny memes and videos, questions, and funny stories that remind you of him. This will let him know that you are thinking of him, even when he is not around, but at the same time you will not impose. Here are some examples:
- Write to him about something that reminded you of him, for example: “I saw this today! I couldn't stop laughing …”Don't tell him the whole story until he answers.
- Send him a question to which he knows the answer, for example: “What did they ask us about history? For some reason I didn't write down the assignment. " When he answers, write this: "Now come and help me do my homework, ha ha!"
Step 5. Add him as a friend on social networks and chat with him on the Internet
Social media is a great way to get to know someone, and they provide opportunities for flirting. Like some of his posts (but not all) and leave comments on the posts you like the most. You can also chat with him on Snapchat so he knows what you think of him every day.